Author : Jay De Las Alas
Saturday, February 1, 2025

Beyond "No" and "Don't": Empowering Children with Positive Guidance

"No" and "Don't" are often the first words that come to mind when we want to stop our children from doing something. While these words may seem like quick and easy solutions, they can have unintended consequences. They can lead to power struggles, defiance, and a negative emotional connection with our children.

Instead of resorting to these restrictive words, we can empower our children by using positive and constructive language. Here are some alternative phrases:

  • Instead of "No, don't touch the stove," try: "The stove is hot. It can hurt you." This explains the reason behind the restriction, fostering understanding and safety.
  • Instead of "Don't run in the house," try: "Let's walk inside. Running can cause us to fall." This provides a clear and safe alternative.
  • Instead of "No, you can't have another cookie," try: "Let's enjoy this cookie now. We can have another one later." This teaches delayed gratification and helps children understand limits.
  • Instead of "Don't throw your toys," try: "Let's put our toys in the bin. We want to keep our room tidy." This focuses on positive behavior and encourages responsibility.

By using these alternative phrases, we can:

  • Improve communication: We open a dialogue with our children, explaining the reasons behind our requests.
  • Build self-regulation: We help children understand boundaries and develop self-control.
  • Foster positive relationships: We create a more nurturing and respectful environment for our children to grow.

Remember, positive guidance is about teaching and guiding, not simply restricting. By choosing our words carefully, we can empower our children to make responsible choices and develop into confident, well-adjusted individuals.

Please note that this information is for general guidance only and should not be considered professional advice.
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We ask that the Party Host arrive 15 minutes before the scheduled party time to unload the car, check-in the Guest of Honor & family and be there to greet party guests. We  DO NOT  recommend arriving any earlier as space is limited and there will likely be another group in our lobby. Your Party Guests should be encouraged to arrive as close to the scheduled party time as possible.

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- A $150 deposit is required to confirm your reservation.

- If you do need to cancel the party, we will work with you to find another date and time that will work best for you within one year of original party date. Your original deposit will be applied towards your re-scheduled party. Alternatively, you may use the $150 deposit towards store credit (to purchase play passes or memberships).

For Open Play Parties:  (we are open to the public during your party) For the comfort and safety of all guests, party headcount may not exceed 44 (adults/kids combined). You will have one room available during the party. The private room is comfortable for up to 20 children and 10 adults. After the party you are free to spend as much time as you like in the playground and parent lounge. A $30 Admission Fee will be charged for each child (under 18) over the number included in your package.

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Advance Notice:  14 days advance notice is required to reschedule your event from its original date.
Rescheduling:  If you reschedule or cancel your event less than 14 days prior to its original date, your deposit is non-refundable and you may be held financially responsible for the full party package price, if the time slot is not filled after your cancellation. Rescheduling is subject to availability & not guaranteed. If you reschedule & host your event within 1 year of the original date, the deposit will apply towards your new party date.
Cancel:  Again, if you do need to cancel the party, we will work with you to find another date and time that will work best for you within one year of original party date. Your original deposit will be applied towards your re-scheduled party. Alternatively, you may use the $150 deposit towards store credit (to purchase play passes or memberships).

  • Fruit/vegetable & salad platters which are store bought AND in the original store container
  • Unopened juice, soda and water bottles/cans are OK.
  • Pizza, Sandwich, Catered Platters store bought AND in the original store box/packaging are OK.
  • There will be no refrigerator or microwave available to your party. Plan accordingly.
  • Your cake, cookies or cupcakes are OK.
  • No food from home is permitted (except for cake, cookies, cupcakes).
  • No other outside food is permitted and will not be served. Sorry, no exceptions.
A lot! First, the party room is cleaned and set up for you with your cake, gifts, and other decor (goodie bags, balloons, etc). Our Staff will also be there to serve food & drinks for the children and will take care of cleanup. Of course, we'll check in with you from time to time to see if you need anything too.
For larger groups (more than 35 kids) please call us to discuss additional fee.
You are limited to 2-hours for the party space but are welcome to stay in the playground area.
We understand that circumstances happen, however, our private parties start at the scheduled event time. To maintain private parties, we are not able to extend or modify your event's schedule. We will escort late-arriving guests to your group.
The party host is required to stay at the party until your last guest departs. Once guests have left the room and in the public play area you are welcome to leave.
Yes, your guest may re-enter the play area during the entirety of your 2-hour party.
You're welcome to use your own decorations and/or paper products in the party room. To preserve the integrity of our party rooms, decorations are limited to tabletop decor. We do not permit wall or ceiling decorations, streamers, silly string, confetti, or piñatas. But remember, you may arrive up to 15 minutes before your scheduled party time to decorate.

Food & other party resources are prepped prior to your event based on the details provided by you. We may adjust your Party Package up, but not down, on the day of the event. You may purchase Goodie Bags, balloons, beverages a la carte at your event, subject to stock on hand. Additional food orders are subject to delivery schedules & fees and may not be available on the day of your event.


Wally Wombats is Las Vegas best kids' birthday destination. We know it's the most important day of the year for your child and we treat them like it. Every party is hosted by our friendly staff, who make sure your every need is attended to.